No clue man, sorry

I just found out my emails were being marked as spam just using a custom domain through icloud mail. So I don’t envy those having to run and troubleshoot their own hosted system.

on the water, at sea, in the ocean

Hexbear (if you disagree with their politics) is basically like a white american from the deep south. They’re perfectly reasonable to talk to as long as it isn’t politics

No, it’s just a big community by itself already. So while some big instances have it blocked, they have enough users to just have activity from their own instance.