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Cake day: October 9th, 2023
  • countrypunk@slrpnk.nettoPrivacy@lemmy.ml•how do you guys use privacy focused messaging alternatives like Signal or Matrix?
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    10 days ago

    Most of my communications with friends used to be on Instagram and discord. Discord was easy to get rid of because I kept having issues with notifications on it and told my friends that and eventually they got the message when I just didn’t receive/reply to anything that they sent me.

    Instagram was a lot harder to get rid of. It’s a lot easier to pressure people in person than online. I deleted Instagram and told my friends that they could get in touch with me on signal. Initially they were contacting me on SMS, but I used social pressure with my converted friends to get the others on it by making a group chat on signal and constantly referencing conversations on there. Fear of missing out is a big motivator to get people to switch.

    Another thing that I did was empathize the features of signal over SMS. I talked about things like being able to see when people are typing, read receipts, profile pictures, stickers, etc. Obviously my main motivation is for security, but a lot of people automatically bristle and have the usual “i don’t have anything to hide” talking points so it’s been easier to use those other approaches. With the results of the recent US election it’s been easier to convince people to make the switch, though.

  • countrypunk@slrpnk.netOPtoPrivacy@lemmy.ml•How private is a fairphone?
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    10 days ago

    $550 is a lot which is why it’s a future plan for me. I have a pixel 7a which is serving me well at the current moment but the repairability on this thing is egregious. To repair the battery you have to unseal the adhesive with a heat gun and then pull off the interior battery adhesive and there’s no guarantee it’ll reseal properly. I plan to get as much life as I absolutely can out of this phone, but when it gives up the ghost I want something that’ll last a long time and is repairable because reducing e-waste is important to me. I also just enjoy being able to fix things by myself. By the time I need a new phone, all of the five year old phones will be the current removedty unrepairable ones we have today.

  • countrypunk@slrpnk.nettoTechnology@beehaw.org•Researchers: Educating young people about social media would be far more effective than a ban - Finland can show us how
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    17 days ago

    This is such a good approach. I suspect that countries like the US and Aus don’t want their citizens to be media literate so that they can be easily manipulated.

    I had unlimited internet access and a smartphone from a very young age and had no idea about cyber security and why free apps are free because of their selling of data. I fell for a fair amount of scams and got some viruses. I’m sure that there’s embarrassing stuff online about me that I posted as a kid out there somewhere. I spent most of my teen years on YouTube and Instagram (around 12-15 hours a day of screentime, sometimes more).

    It wasn’t all bad. The internet helped educate me on puberty and identity when I had little to no sex education. I was exposed to many different types of people and perspectives. I am much more tech savvy than almost all of my peers and am skilled at troubleshooting and fixing things for people. I somehow broke my social media addiction this year and am able to help my friends learn better internet hygiene too. I think that by having that extremely unhealthy relationship with technology it helped me realize that I need to live in the present moment and how much better I feel without social media in my life (still use Lemmy tho).

    One thing that’s horrifying to see is that a very large portion of my peers at college are completely addicted to TikTok and Instagram reels. Sometimes I’ll walk into a room and there’s a large group of people and everyone’s sitting in a circle and scrolling on their phones. Sometimes in the middle of conversation people will start scrolling and shove something they found on Instagram on their phone into the middle of conversation that has nothing to do with it. It’s like people can’t sit with themselves and be bored for a second without that massive dopamine hit that short form content gives them.

    I don’t think that it’s entirely a personal issue/failure, although at the end of the day you’re the only one who can truly control your actions. Instead this is a common pattern that I’ve observed and these apps are intentionally designed to be as addictive and distracting as possible even at the cost of expierencing life. It definitely resembles drug addiction. Not to mention that they prey on people with mental illness and who are in bad life situations.

    The point is, young peoples’ relationship with tech and specifically social media is a huge issue and I get the need to do something about it. There has absolutely got to be hard regulation about the way these apps are designed to prevent the level of addiction seen today for all ages. I wholeheartedly agree with the Finnish education model and think that my life would have been a lot better if I’d had that, but holding social media corporations accountable is of equal importance.