I agree, it’s such a public discourse pollutant. Mastodon since inception allowed to post privately to your followers.
This whole thing reeks of “I want to scream into the void and everyone see my whining but nobody dare to say anything!” toddler mentality. Just start a removeding journal or get therapy like the rest of the adults -.-
It’s this perverted need to scream and have someone justify your scream through likes. Incredibly toxic but for some reason we regard that as normal.