jointhefediverse.net seems to be a commonly linked resource for directing people to join the Fediverse.

Curiously, it does not list Lemmy under the list of Reddit alternatives. Their GitHub README explains why.

Previous relevant discussion: https://lemmy.ml/post/78808

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    Lemmy was removed due to:

    • reports of how the developers handle certain types of content (post removed, view an incomplete archive)
    • the behavior of its creator
    • how the sotware itself handles users’ privacy.

    All valid concerns.

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      No, they’re not.

      how the developers handle certain types of content

      Doesn’t matter if you stay away from .ml.

      the behavior of its creator

      Kind of valid, but open source and open license negates a lot of that.

      how the sotware itself handles users’ privacy.

      You think anything else on the Fediverse is better? When you post something publicly, it’s public. Doesn’t really matter what the software does. If you don’t have End to End encryption, it’s not private.

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        Doesn’t matter if you stay away from .ml.

        And they are. They have delisted Lemmy as a recommendation.

        Kind of valid, but open source and open license negates a lot of that.

        It’s really bad PR. I don’t recommend Lemmy to people because of this removed.

        You think anything else on the Fediverse is better?

        If their servers delete content you want deleted, yes.

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          If their servers delete content you want deleted, yes.

          It’s the case for Lemmy

          Unfortunately there was some miscommunication in this issue and we failed to get to the root cause. In fact the Lemmy backend has an option to delete all content when an account is deleted. This used to be the default behaviour but was changed in 0.19 so you need to set a parameter delete_content. We failed to add a checkbox for this parameter to lemmy-ui.

          However the checkbox is added now in #2385 and will be included in the next Lemmy release. Other frontends and clients may also need to adjust the delete_account api call.

          https://github.com/LemmyNet/lemmy-ui/issues/2384#issuecomment-1978857727

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      Point 1 and 2 really need to be addressed.

      It would be so much better if lemmy wasn’t developed by genocide white-washing tankies.

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              In terms of incoming federation, PieFed sites are dealing with as much activity as any general Lemmy instance. It’s not happened yet, but I suppose it’s possible that problems will become apparent if the amount of local users gets over a certain size. A limit on the amount of users per instance isn’t necessarily a bad thing though (it’s cheap, and hopefully easy enough, for someone to spin up another one).

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                  It uses postgres for the DB - I think that and redis are designed to operate at very large scales, so it wouldn’t be them.

                  My guess would be that it’s something in the interpreted nature of Python - this seems to be why a familiar dismissal of PieFed is a concern about how it will scale.

                  That said, this site shows that Python is the most popular language for Fediverse apps (just), the likes of Mastodon are written in another interpreted language (Ruby), and I think there are more big websites running Python (with Django or Flask) than people realise. So I don’t know, really, I’m just following other people’s lead on this. I don’t imagine that any problems would be insurmountable though: an admin could restrict the amount of signups, or if new users mean a few more donations, they could just throw money at the problem (more cycles for one server, or splitting up tasks across multiple servers).

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                    If you consider all AI-chat sites are running on python, I guess python scales with no issue at all

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      I hate it when people try to gatekeep like this. I don’t need to be handheld. If there’s a Fediverse alternative to something and it mostly works, it should be on the website. Anything less is not useful at best.

      Edit: I say this as someone who has historically criticized the behavior of the devs as well as multiple Lemmy communities BTW.

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        I agree 100% with this. The developers or the operators of lemmy.ml may be assholes, but the beauty of decentralization is I can simply not use their instance. I do not. Thus, while a warning label is necessary, I think more good is done by making people aware of the alternative to Reddit than by sweeping the whole thing under the rug.

        As for user privacy, I’m not sure Lemmy is any worse than any other Fediverse app. There were a couple of bad things like being unable to delete a hosted image, but that has been fixed. Once again, warning label, not rug sweep.

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      The linked post given on the second point is a bit flimsy. It’s basically saying that if you use evidence published by a person with removedty views, you must have them too. To me, that’s absurd as claiming that referencing FBI statistics makes someone a federal agent.

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      To me the first one is an instance problem (ml, hexbear?), and not a lemmy problem. It has looked like they’ve been trying to separate the two as much as possible.

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        Unfortunately, .ml is a default instance and the main devs instance, what happens there reflects on all of us

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          It was made very clear from the start that .ml was not meant to be a ‘default instance’.

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          To me, the only solution to this is to do a hard fork. Take the code (It’s AGPL), rename it if Lemmy is trademarked, and encourage admins to use it and contributors to target it. Maybe start a non-profit or LLC while we’re at it.

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            Good luck finding Rust devs interested in link aggregators. That fork would probably fall behind, and people would switch back to Lemmy as they keep delivering features.

            Mbin and Piefed use more popular languages and haven’t caught up yet

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              Instead of trying to fork, maybe we try and go the Gotosocial way and make a MVP smol version. Something that can house 10 or so users. People can spin up whatever they want.

              Honestly what I wouldnt give for a reddit theme on mastodon that uses their hashtags as the communities themselves. That would be cool in my opinion.

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      What is the issue with user privacy? These do not sound like valid concerns to me.

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        This is all quite old drama, and the issue itself is fixed now, but at one point someone kicked off about how if you uploaded a picture to Lemmy, there was no easy way to delete it (you could delete your post, but the image would still be there at whatever URL was created for it, and it wasn’t even that easy for admins to find and remove it) - so I’m guessing that it stems from that.

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        it’s federated. It’s the only way it can work. Everything still on that ist must suffer from the same thing. Federation means handing stuff to someone else. Once that’s done, it’s out of your hands forever.

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          Once that’s done, it’s out of your hands forever.

          Correct but fedi is supposed to be the public forum of the future.

          Social media worked the same… you handed your removed posts to faceberg or sundar the creep, do people think when they deleted their “creation” it was removed?

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          That cant be the issue because the site is called joinfediverse and everything it lists is federated.

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          No that cant be why they do not list lemmy. The other services there federate in the same way.

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      These concerns, and more, are why just today, during a conversation with some friends looking to get off traditional social media, I advised them to join pixelfed, peer tube, mastodon, and loops, but suggested they strictly avoid Lemmy.

      The communities aren’t right for anyone who isn’t seeking something exactly like Lemmy or leftie-Reddit-lite. I don’t even really like it here all that much anymore. Not the content; the interactions… across all my accounts… even joining “nicer” spaces is not a particularly nice or pleasant experience, plus the more interested is a woman, and Lemmy is a horrible sausagefest echo chamber not at all suited to a normal average woman person who isn’t techie. I’m techie, so I’m used to the vibe, but for your average cis-woman, Lemmy is a very very bad fit.

      Bring on the downvotes if you like (the echo-chamber anti-voice sentiment is part of why people shouldn’t be recommended this platform, after all) but these are legit concerns for people who may want to join, and those of us already here can and do steer people elsewhere as a result.

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        Lemmy is a horrible sausagefest echo chamber not at all suited to a normal average woman person who isn’t techie.

        Far be it from me to point out this is exactly how reddit started.

        The foundational promise of lemmy and the fediverse writ large is freedom from proprietary software and closed-protocols; the kind of people who are going to be interested in seeking out those types of alternatives are going to gravitate toward techy men.

        It takes time for new social media sites to fan outward from their initial adopters, that’s just how it goes.

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        Same honestly. I never discussed politics on Reddit, but it’s all the content that’s here. Partly why I don’t recommend it to anyone i know who uses Reddit. Most content just isn’t normie-friendly here.

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          It’s so depressing and aggressive, honestly. I can’t do that to my friends who don’t do that already.

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            Have you been on Reddit lately? It’s insanely depressing and aggressive, too. Even more so in my opinion. I used to be reddit addicted but it’s so bot infested, mean-spirited, and kind of vapid and shallow that I get bored after the first page or two. Lemmy still has a long way to go but I’ve been having more fun and interesting conversations on here.